Saturday, October 18, 2008

Goodbye Reggie



It is with a heavy heart and tear-filled eyes that we say goodbye to our Reggie White. Reggie first came to us from an animal rescue place because his previous owner had thrown him from a car, abandoned. I have never been able to figure out why anyone would have done that to such a sweet dog. He has been the best damn dog anyone could ask for.

When we first got him, he was gentle and playful with the girls. Audrey used to put her hand in his mouth, and he would never bite down. That is why she knew when Noah was born that he would be safe with Reggie. That dog put up with a lot -- Sometimes he played the part of a horse, or he would be your pillow while you watched TV. He would never growl, bark or bite if someone tugged at his tail or ears. Not only did he welcome newborn Noah and all that toddlerhood brought, but when we adopted 2 kittens, he daddied them like the gentle soul that he was. He would lick them clean, let them lay on him to take naps, and even let them eat his food.

Then when Maggie arrived, all bubbly and ready to play, he took care of her too. He showed her how to run as fast as you possibly could from one end of the house to the other, then turn around and run back. You didn't have to have a reason, sometimes it just felt good to run. He took good care of Maggie too, cleaning her, playing with her, and snuggling with her. She is a little lost without him right now. Yesterday when I tied her up to go potty, she just sat at the door waiting patiently for me to let her in --- it was Reggie's job to bark and let us know they were done "doing their business."

He loved to play catch. I would say fetch, but in his younger years, sometimes he would just catch the frisbee or tennis ball and keep going. There are frisbees and tennis balls all over DeForest, hidden by Reggie. We met many a neighbor when they called asking if we had lost a white dog. All commented on how well behaved he was and many offered to adopt him. He loved to swim in the lake and go camping with us. I always felt safer knowing he was on watch. He loved to be close to us. He would follow you all around the house, and whenever you stopped, he lay down at your feet -- sometimes behind you, so if you weren't careful, you'd end up on your nose when you turned around.

Unfortunately, after 13 1/2 years he was ready to take his final nap. He did that with love and grace also. The look in his eyes and the final wag of his tail said it all, "I've loved you all, and this has been fun, but I'm so very tired." No matter how long you know it's coming or how prepared you think you are, it breaks your heart to have to say goodbye. We will miss Reggie terribly. There will never be another dog like him, but we thank God for blessing us with him.

5 endearing comments:

~kelly :) said...

Dear Reggie's family,

We are just completely saddened by your news and can relate to what you are all going through. We like to think that Reggie and Max are running across all the couches in heaven, leaping over everyone that is sitting on them, tearing up Doggie Heaven and chasing each other everywhere...like they used to when they were young and very healthy. It has been two years since Max had to leave us and truly, not a day goes by still that we do not think of him. It's good to have him in our hearts and talking about him keeps him in our memories. And you are right...it is WONDERFUL to be BLESSED with such a great pet and protector. No doubt Reggie left you all with wonderful memories and with the thoughts of how lucky he was that he was able to grow up with you.

We are all thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way. And no doubt, Reggie is saying to you all right now, "Thanks for my wonderful life."

love to you all,

~kelly and joey, and the rest of our family

LifePhoto said...

I'm sorry for your loss, too. I even had tears coming to my eyes while I was reading you post. It reminded me of our dog, Charlie, (except the part of not barking) :) but, how I miss him. It's hard to believe it'll be two years on Christmas day, that we lost him. I truly do believe that all animals live in a much better place than we could even imagine, as hard as it may be to imagine. We are truly blessed with all the love our best 4-legged friends give us while they are with us.
Love and sympathy to you all,
MaryBeth

Dawn Doucette said...

Awwww, I am so sorry. I am crying with you! Reggie was a phenomenal lab... I'll never forget him running through the back yards fetching... well fetching anything he could get his mouth on! He was a happy, happy boy and he will be missed very much!

My love to all - Aunt Rita, Uncle Scott, Noah, Audrey & Kim. You gave him all your love and he gave you all his! What a special blessing and gift!

Between Max and our old boy Tahoe that went to heaven in June, he'll be protected and shown the ropes of Milkbone Heaven. :)

Thinking about you! Lots of Love,

Dawn & Chris

Julie said...

To all those who knew and loved Reggie; We are truly sorry for your loss of a true companion. I sit here with a lump in my throat as I read this aloud to Ed and Greg as if it is part of the Sunday newspaper. We want you all to know we are thinking of you and are very glad you had the wonderful home for Reggie to go to after his sad beginning. Bless you all and may you feel his comfort every time you see a frisbee or tennis ball. Love, Julie, Ed and Greg

Grip KT said...

My Heart goes out to you in this time of loss. I know that it's very hard to say good by and that you will never be able to fill the hole he leaves behind. May all your wonderful memories of Reggie help you through this time, I know Reggie is in a very wonderful place where he has and can do all that makes him happy.
God Bless,
Arnie, Katie & Oliver